In this episode of the Victory Lion Podcast, our host Opi Jayasinghe sat down with Sadhna Wilson, an inspiring woman who has navigated the complex journey of dementia with her late husband, Darryl. Sadhna shares her deeply personal story, highlighting the challenges, the unexpected moments of resilience, and the importance of leaving a legacy.
Sadhna’s narrative begins in her childhood in Fiji, where food was the love language that connected her family. As she recounts, “We feed each other, and there’s never a knock on the door. People just walk in and out of homes, and there’s always something.” This cultural tradition of gathering around food laid the foundation for her later accomplishments, including the publication of her cookbook, which she sees as both a personal achievement and a tribute to her ancestors.
The podcast takes a poignant turn as Sadhna discusses the impact of dementia on her family. Darryl, diagnosed with younger onset dementia, faced the disease with a stoic mindset. Sadhna reflects, “I didn’t once hear him feel sorry for himself,” exemplifying his strength and resilience. Despite the progressive nature of the disease, Darryl’s approach to life and his ability to embrace each moment served as a powerful reminder of the importance of perspective.
You almost mourn that little loss of the person each time
- Sadhna Wilson -
Sadhna’s journey through caregiving and loss is one of immense strength. She emphasizes the necessity of early intervention and familial support, urging listeners to engage professional care sooner rather than later to better navigate the challenges of dementia. Her advocacy for dementia awareness and education is a testament to her commitment to turning personal pain into a purposeful mission.
As Sadhna looks to the future, she envisions a role in dementia education and support, helping others prepare for the realities of the disease. Her story is a call to action, reminding us of the importance of legacy, communication, and authenticity in our relationships.
This episode is not only a tribute to Darryl’s life and legacy but a beacon of hope for others facing similar battles. Sadhna’s courage and dedication to raising awareness about dementia serve as an inspiration to us all.